COMMUNITY VALUES GO OUT THE WINDOW!!
Luxury Hoteliers the world over pull out all stops to demonstrate that their creative skills are well focused on the needs and aspirations of their clientele while carefully respecting and honoring the local community's values.
How shocked therefore I was to read of this 'over-the-top' gesture to a simple Christian tradition in the middle of the middle of the Middle East.
As a former hotel General Manager in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, I learned a great deal about the Muslim world, their traditions, their customs and their likes and dislikes. It was a fascinating experience and I came away with many Muslim friends with whom I shared many similar interests. I gained respect for those traditions and for those even who were more extreme in their beliefs.
At no time while I was there did I or my team ever consider that it would be wise to celebrate openly any Christian holiday or event. It would not have been appropriate, appreciated............in fact it would have been plain rude. We were guests in their country. We were operating a hotel which respected the local values and traditions and which was adorned with pieces and mementos that were connected to their history, their culture and their past.
To do so at that time would have been like thumbing our noses at those whose values were different. To do so today is in some ways an attempt to send a message. I am not at all qualified to know what that message is, or was intended to be but it might include these,
- My hotel is more upmarket than yours is!
- I can do better than you can.
- We respect your Christian values.
- Christian values are actually capitalistic.
- The only Christmas decorations around here are at the jewellery store!
- My owner is richer than your owner.
- What else could I have done with $11 million in December?
In that the tree at Christmas is where gifts are deposited and where friends and family are invited to unwrap their gifts, show appreciation and exchange gifts. Many families today are scaling back the value of the gifts they give so that they can be more charitable.
It will be interesting to see how this part of the custom plays out in Abu Dhabi!! Are the decorations accessible? Will they be gifted to others? Are they guarded by security? Do the security officers have guns? Do the guns have bullets? Do they plan to distribute them to the needy, as is done in many a hotel in the Christian world? So many questions. So much that needs explanation.
Last evening I helped to decorate our tree at home. Over the years we have accumulated a huge collection of decorative memories from large balloon balls in glass, paper mache and clay dolls with intricately woven lace dresses & fancy aprons to all sorts of silver stuff; ribbons, disco balls, chains and lights. By January 6th, they will have been packed up in boxes under the basement stairs for another year only to re-awaken memories again when reopened next year.
The gifts will have gone. The wrappers refolded or recycled. the decorations extinguished.
All of which leads to the question.........are these decorations gifts or is this the ultimate tease?
Happy Holidays............ and keep it up UAE, you are not afraid of leading or taking a risk or two!!
PS. Apparently, the tree was removed and the mistake was admitted. Only big people admit their mistakes. All is forgiven. Happy New 'Gregorian' Year to all.
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